Tyler Posey and Phem.Photo:Michael Kovac/Getty

All About Tyler Posey’s Fiancee Phem

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Tyler Poseyis a married man — but not all of theTeen Wolfstar’s castmates witnessed the special occasion.

In a new interview withThe New York Postpublished Friday, the actor, 32, revealed who was (and wasn’t) in attendance to see him tie the knot with his new bride,Phem.

“It was just so exciting to share that with them. I love them,” Posey told thePost.

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“I always have and I always will," he continued. “They were hanging with me all night and partying and dancing. And it was just such a fun experience and it just meant a lot that whoever did show up was there.”

Dylan O’Brien, who played Posey’s best friend Stiles Stilinski, wasn’t there for the ceremony. Neither was Dylan Sprayberry.

“No Dylans. They were both busy,” Posey told thePost, adding that he would’ve loved to see them there.

“They were both invited, but they were busy,” he shared.

Former castmates who could save the date wereColton Haynes,Tyler Hoechlin, JR Bourne and Khylin Rhambo.

Posey confessed that if it were up to him, more people would have been included. However, he had to “be strategic and kind of bite the bullet” because he and Phem, 28, had a small wedding.

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While theMaid in Manhattanalum admitted “it’s hard to keep it going every day,” his favorite part is keeping in touch with his pals as they grow.

“You get more settled into who we are as individuals and getting to share that with one another,” he said.

Others present for the Oct. 14 wedding in Malibu includedAvril LavigneandBella Thorne.

“We love the ocean and peacefulness. We’ve always thought Malibu is very calming,“Posey told PEOPLEin an exclusive interview.

Tyler Posey marries Phem.Michael Tyrone Delaney

Tyler Posey wedding

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When asked what were necessities for the big day, the couple replied, “Good music, good food, lots of dancing and at least ONE Blink-182 song!”

Four days before the nuptials,Posey celebrated his 32nd birthday. They listened to more good music as Phem gave her beau a lap dance, a seen in footage shared on social media.

“We are in awe of your magnificent heart and your pure beautiful soul,” she captioned the video. “Thank you for pushing us and inspiring us to be the best versions of ourselves.”

source: people.com